How God Speaks To Us and How We Must Listen to Him

I. Egg.

I know why there are no moneyboys draped across the stoop at the entrance to the Malaysia Hotel. Not one. For the first time in decades, maybe since the Vietnam War. I know why. Joseph told me.

Joseph is the homeless Swiss man who lives, propped up on crutches, beside the pay phones across from the Seven-Eleven. Last December, on the way to see his girlfriend, getting off a bus in the rain, he fell and broke his hip. Then the other hip somehow also broke. (These things just happen when you drink.)

Joseph ran out of money, so he’s waiting to be eligible for his pension in Switzerland. Five more years. Until then he’ll be waiting beside the pay phones. At 4:30 am, when the gates open at Lumpini Park, he goes and sleeps.

Joseph saw everything. At that time he always sat in the little smoking house in the parking lot of the Malaysia. The moneyboys smoked there, too.

“The one boy he was always fighting. Every month at least one fight. Always trouble. That night another moneyboy is coming. He was having a good night, just by looking at him you could see it. And the troublemaking boy he says to him, Give me three hundred baht. Of course the other boy he says No. They start to hit each other. Trouble hits the other boy and he goes over backwards, right over the side of the smoking house.

“His head when he fell – it made a sound like the smashing of a boiled egg.” Joseph mimes the convulsions of the money boy, the jerking of his arms and legs, the shuttering and unshuttering of his sightless eyes. “In the hospital he was 4 days in the coma. Then he died. The other boy he got twenty years I think. I hope. He was all the time around this place and always causing trouble.

“Now I am not even allowed to sit in the smoking house. It is for paying guests only. So now I must stand here, here beside the telephones.”

Wherever they are it pursues them. It precedes them, accompanies them, follows them.

II. Math.

The Malaysia Hotel has six floors. About fifteen rooms to a floor. Somebody, do the math. How many whores is that? How many beers? How many shots of SangSom? How many pillowcases? How much vomit? How many rushed trips to the toilet? How many condoms? How many STDs? How many antibiotics? How much pad thai with no spice? How many flip-flops and tuk-tuks? How much lubricant? How many towels?

Old Willem from the Netherlands suggests, “It is better if you tip the chambermaids each week. Then you get twice as many towels.” Two towels is not enough for all the moneyboys visiting Willem’s room. “I have all size condoms in my room,” says Willem. “Unfortunately it is the small ones which are used most often.”

Willem keeps a strict and healthy routine. Every day a walk in the park. Every day English study. Every day a salad of vegetables and fruit. Every day a massage. A schedule like this, Willem believes, can keep an old man alive for a very long time.

“I do not like moneyboys,” says Willem. “Of course I am happy to pay for their drinks and food. But no cash!” Willem always has a new boyfriend, whom he is sure loves him only for himself. And an ex-boyfriend, with whom he just broke up. Who, it turns out, wanted money after all!

Willem is a tender and meticulous elderly Dutch gentleman. No doubt he would be astonished to find himself accused of fraud.

III. Gorillas.

When George Schaller, the primatologist, was asked how he’d been able to learn so much about the habits of gorillas, he answered, “I was not carrying a gun.”

Walking through the glass double-doors of the Malaysia Hotel, I am deep in the forest. The sex tourists are my gorillas – both the fussy-faced old men buying sex and the glossy laminated Euro-queers on a longterm fucking tour of the entire world.

(Incredible to think that one of these is the juvenile form of the other. If you look closely, however, you can see the resemblance. They have the same clenched and angry mouths.)

One obstacle to this good intention is that I am scared to death of all these people. And nevermind that I, too, am one of the traveling insatiables. Somewhere, I am sure, there are there are dogs afraid of dogs and skyscrapers squeamish of heights.

IV.

The Malaysia Hotel: a place where you can run screaming naked down the hall in the middle of the afternoon and not feel judged or out of place.

Sometimes I wonder what it would take to startle the housekeeping staff. There’d have to be a lot of blood. Or ink. Or chewing gum.

But what is the secret of how to find treasure – this minute grain of mustard seed? There is none. It is available to us always, everywhere.

V. The Fish.

Old Willem tells the tale. About a fish in the glass-walled pool beside the tables on the patio of the Malaysia Hotel. A truly gigantic koi, much bigger than those you see there now. A lady had been feeding it. That is the rumor. Some tourist lady had been teasing and taunting this monstrous carp until it busted straight through the glass wall, and lay on the tile, bleeding from the mouth.

The diners and the staff all stood helpless around the beast, which gasped and somersaulted across the dining area. It seemed a long time before the fish began to settle down and earnestly to begin to die.

But then: two mechanics came, with sopping wet towels, which they wrapped around the beast. After checking its bloody mouth for shards of glass, they returned it to the tank, which was still inhabitable, despite its lower water level.

Willem tells me carefully the story of the fish. And adds: “That is why, in Bangkok, one must stay only at the Malaysia Hotel – because this is their level of service.”

VI. Abandonment to Divine Providence.

These cans of cold coffee contain such vast quantities of caffeine and sugar that they function, on my borderline personality, as a euphoric hallucinogen.

Just as the wise ones had their peyote, soma, ayuhuasca – so this one, unwise, has BIRDY classic ice coffee.

Even after half a can, life seems a worthwhile enterprise. I sip as slowly as I can – knowing that when the thrill wears off I am going to feel like Edgar Allan Poe after a bender.

Four cans, I estimate, would necessitate my hospitalization; I never go that far. After two and a half cans I am convinced that Everything is Deeply Meaningful and Possessed of a Darkly Radiant Purpose and Significance.

(Whatever the fuck that means.)

BIRDY classic ice coffee. You can buy this stuff over-the-counter twenty-four hours a day. I’ve seen children drink it.

Whether her occupations were exalted or lowly, in her eyes they were but shadows, more or less luminous, in which she found it possible both to worship God and to recognize the works of the Almighty.

To read Abandonment to Divine Providence while sipping BIRDY classic is, without a doubt, foolhardy. Like snorting poppers on Viagra. But, after two and a half cans, I feel that I am so totally on the wavelength with Father Jean-Pierre de Caussade that I’m practically channelling him. God still speaks!

And I am not a Christian, not remotely. I am a homosexual residing in one of the world’s most infamous hotels. When religious people speak of the holiness of the world – well, they are not speaking with me in mind.

Nevermind: I will include myself. I will haul myself aboard. Along with any number of other unspeakable people. I make experiments. And day after day I read and reread Abandonment to Divine Providence, the first chapter of which is titled: How God Speaks to Us and How We Must Listen to Him.

VII. punshmt.

great sir if u do like it. my fantasy is to be a student boy called in to a principal room to report for punshmt whatever it is, kneeling at his office for hour may raise hands carry bible!! or for a good spank, cane and etc. no need expertise, just fantasy and real school experience u might have sir!!

VIII. Careers.

“I survived three lay-offs. I did not survive the fourth. Now – who knows what I will do? I’m tired of working. I’m 52 years old. Maybe I will become a prostitute. Lots of people want an older man. My dick is huge. My friends have money. David, Pablo, James. David is very wealthy – and he is totally in love with me. But he is inbred. That’s the trouble with coming from a rich family. You have to marry your cousin. So David is inbred. For example, he has no chin. Still he says I love you, I love you. Maybe I can fuck him for money.

“I still have to come at least once a day. I have so many fuckbuddies. Their husbands don’t fuck them so I fuck them. They just totally use me. Let them pay. Who wants to be a journalist anyway? I should get paid to fuck.

“Why go to India? You should go to Berlin and be a sex addict. You meet men who have sex twenty times a day. Absolutely anything you can do there.

“You’re a slow person, aren’t you? You’re a little slow. That’s okay, I don’t mind slow people. I like you even though I am very quick. And I’ve got to tell you the truth – you are more than a little slow.”

IX. List of Prohibitions (Complete).

The signs reads:

Possession of Durian will be Fined 500 Baht.

(All other substances will be ignored.)

X. Cornfield

“In 1980 I drove across America. James would never do that. James is afraid of everything. He is nerd. I hate nerds. We haven’t had sex in three years. Anyway, he lives in Houston.

“I was driving across America. Actually, I was riding. The man driving was insane. I don’t know why I didn’t notice before. I guess because we always fucked and never talked.

“He got really aggressive. He wanted sex all the time. But I had lent him one hundred dollars. I said ‘You don’t get this and you don’t get this’ until I get my hundred dollars.

“He said ‘Oh I need to talk to my granny.’ But I still wouldn’t let him fuck me. So he punched me. I punched him too. I had to give up hope of getting my hundred dollars back. When I jumped out of the car I was in a cornfield outside Wakefield, Iowa. It was a long time before anyone stopped to pick me up.

“That’s what I was like. Living nonstop. Fucking nonstop. James would never do that. James is a coward. He’s 46 years old and he still hasn’t come out to his mother. How can we be boyfriends if we haven’t fucked in three years? He says I tried to rape him. I don’t remember. I was drunk and hungry for sex.

“James knows how much I love America and still he doesn’t say ‘Come to Houston’. He is just basically a weak person. And I am a strong person. We talk every day. I say, ‘I bought this, I bought that’. I am going to break up with him. I can do so much better, don’t you think?”

XI.

Most of all, I love the way this young Thai man – as he leads the slouching Swiss tourist onto the elevator – effortlessly usurps the meaning of the words on his yellow shirt:

Western Union Money Transfer.

XII. The Hidden Kingdom

Do I believe in it, actually? Divine Providence?

No. It seems impossible to me to work up a version of events in which God does not star as sadist.

As for karma, if karma was literally true-- well, the rich would be better people, wouldn’t they?

So I do not believe in Providence. Not officially.

I should also admit the fact that, even as I attempt to drift, wander, or bury my head in the sand, it often seems that I am actually moving from one meticulously planned appointment to the next. What I imagined to be random appears as carefully put together as a tour of North Korea.

I see what I am meant to see. I hear what I meant to hear. And I do not escape.

I learn. Or I don’t learn. But I am continuously summoned.

Therefore, it seems to me the most compelling of experiments: to give pre-eminence to the present moment and focus my attention there. To pay precise attention to strangers as they appear. To consider them as messengers. And listen carefully. Even taking notes.

XIII: Television.

Poolside at the Malaysia Hotel, looking up at the windows: like a wall of gay televisions, highly self-conscious televisions, televisions watching you!

Second floor television, third from the right, waves, grabs crotch, requests a visit. Third floor television doesn’t want to be watched, doesn’t think you’re good enough to watch it, wants the small man in the white speedo but he never looks up.

The white haired man in the corner has been in his window for years, he’s gone mad: a television which cannot turn off. Always somewhere in the middle: Scandinavian Family Programming.

Some televisions give only glimpses, others only wish to watch themselves: they close the curtains. Suddenly, second floor, fourth from the right: scenes of Paris, wild animals!

Before you know it, you’re cheering on the television, waving to it. Third floor television looks disgusted, yanks the curtain closed. Fourth floor television gets excited, runs downstairs. No! This is not the television I wanted, this is not the show that I requested!

The television you were waving at wasn’t even watching, or misunderstood, or wants the Thai boy on the neighboring sunchair.

Please: try to watch less television. It’s too exciting, too frustrating, too exhausting.

XIV. The Voyeur

“You will be wanting to know about the old man in the window,” Willem says. The old man in the corner room just above the pool, with thick framed glasses and poof of snow white hair, and his perpetual stare upon the pool at the Malaysia Hotel. He is one of our favorite topics of discussion – as he is for everyone. I reckon the most common way to strike up a conversation at the pool is to ask, “Is that old man always staring?”

Yes. He is always staring. The old man is always in his window and he has been staring now, from the same window, for a decade at least.

“I see him in the corridor sometimes. He does not seem mad. I think he is a very old man – older than I,” says Willem, who is 72. “But Kees -- Kees has been in his room!

“It was one of your American holidays. Independence Day. Kees was sitting here by the pool and there was a boy, a completely naked boy, sitting in the window smoking a cigarette. The boy waved for him to come and so he went upstairs to the old man’s room.

“There were three boys, all completely naked. One in the window, one in the bed, one an exercise machine in the corner. The old man was there as well, of course. Sitting in his chair, watching straight porn on his television. Ignoring the boys.

“What his room like?”

“A plain hotel room. Nevermind that he has been there maybe twenty years now. He has an exercise machine and a porn collection. No bookshelf or anything. He does not need it. He has his window.

“A very old man. Over eighty. And still buying boys. At least to look at.”

I imagine the white-haired old man (he is staring out the window now, he is staring as I write these words, he is still staring as you read them) staring out the window as his body falls away, staring until only his eyes remain, unblinking behind heavy glasses, staring in perpetuity down upon the pool at the Malaysia Hotel.

XV. Basilisk.

“You know what I did?,” Charles announces. “I got my binoculars. And I stared at that old buzzard, nonstop, for thirty minutes. So he could feel, you know, what other people feel, when he goes on staring at them for hours.”

“What did he do?”

“Not a thing! Went right on staring,” Charles bugs out his eyes. “He is like a basilisk! After thirty minutes my arm got tired. Not from doing anything untoward, you understand. Just from holding the binoculars. I want to make a call to the police station. Like Humphrey Bogart in the Maltese Falcon. He’s three hundred pounds, you can’t miss him!”

Charles is no lightweight himself. He’s having beef penang and deep fried pork on the side. He can eat whatever he wants, he says. He’s dying.

On the right side of his face is a broad scar showing where the cancer was removed. Not all of it. His words are slightly slurred, which makes him sound even more upper-class British than he was to begin with. “Oh, I must thank you terribly for allowing me to join you for dinner. I must be boring you. I am so ancient, you know. I’m practically antediluvian. Every day the staff has orders to check and see if I am still alive. Oh, one should never discuss one’s ill health. I am so terribly sorry.”

Over and over Charles apologizes. And, when I tell him he is charming nonetheless, he crumples up in his chair, as if, of all the things that have happened to him recently, this is the very hardest.

XVI.

“God is everywhere,” announce the mystics. And then the mystics say, “Beware the company you keep.”

XVII.

Then there’s the guy who wants me to beat, insult and humiliate him. His pictures look really cute. He’s willing to come to my room and everything.

Then I find myself worrying – what if he’s kind of messed-up?

All they knew was that each moment brought its appointed task, faithfully to be accomplished.